American Singer Selena Gomez Says Taylor Swift Is Like Her Big Sister. The Cinema Times, Kathmandu- Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift’s close friendship have been growing even more stronger for more than last 12 years. The two artists connected over a decade ago, when they both were dating two of the Jonas brothers:. Taylor Swift once dated Joe, while Selena Gomez was linked to Nick Jonas. “It was the best thing we got out of those relationships,” Gomez jokingly confessed in an interview last year. In a fan’s question, which asked”How’s Taylor?” Gomez replied, “Taylor’s awesome. I love her. She’s amazing. I just talked to her today. She’s literally like my big sister. I tell her everything. She’s so smart it freaks me out.” How sweet!! Isn’t it?